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Michael P. Whittingham
1956 - 2020
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Michael Whittingham Obituary
Michael Paul Whittingham of Stamford passed away peacefully on the 3rd of October 2020 at Greenwich Hospital. He was born in New York City on the 21st of January, 1956 to the late Cecil Anthony and Jean Hyacinth Whittingham. He graduated from Amherst College in 1977 with a Bachelor of Science in Biology and later earned a Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology.
Michael spent over a decade of his professional life in the field of education. His career began as a tutor for high school students while he pursued a Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology. Helping students achieve their academic potential was very fulfilling to Michael and led him into the field of college admissions. The success that he had as a recruiter for Fairfield University resulted in the return to his alma mater, Amherst College, to serve as Associate Dean of Admissions. It was during his transition to Amherst that he met and then married his wife, Terran, who also worked in the field of college admissions.
The gratification that came with recruiting and mentoring students took Michael beyond the walls of academia and into the world of finance. He was hired by the Sponsors for Educational Opportunities Program (SEO) to enhance the Wall Street's summer internship recruitment program for college students of color. By the end of his tenure, he had successfully expanded the outreach of this program.
Michael went into semi-retirement after his stint with SEO. This allowed him to spend more time raising his son, Paul, and to do various kinds of service for communities in Fairfield County. In addition to his family's philanthropic contributions, Michael was an active member of First United Methodist Church of Greenwich, and educated families about the college admission process.
Giving back was so important to Michael. He wanted to be thought of as an honest and generous person with integrity. He believed that we are all here to contribute to others and make the world better for the next generation.
Thank you, Michael. Your kind, gentle, good-hearted soul will be missed.
Michael is survived by his devoted wife of thirty-one years, Terran Gregory Whittingham of Stamford, his son Paul Anthony Whittingham of Stamford, as well as his brother, Andrew John Whittingham and his wife Robyn Whittingham of Stamford and his nephew, Adam John Whittingham of Stamford.
Family and friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford on Thursday, the 15th of October, 2020 from 5:00-9:00 p.m. A funeral service will be celebrated on Friday, the 16th of October, 2020 at 11:30 a.m. at the First United Methodist Church, 42 Cross Road, Stamford.
The funeral service will be live streamed on both
www.fumcstamford.org under "Streaming" and https://m.facebook.com/FUMCStamford/
Interment will follow at Long Ridge Union Cemetery, Stamford.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Michael's memory to The American Cancer Society.
To leave online condolences, please visit www.cognetta.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Contact
Family
Amherst Relatives
- Terran A. Whittingham W'77
Personal
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Professional
Employment Information
Former
- PrincipalPAMAC LLCStart:02/2020End:10/2020
- CEOCAWS DevelopmentStart:02/2020End:10/2020
- Vice PresidentSponsors for Educational OpportunityStart:01/1999End:02/2020
- Associate DeanAmherst CollegeStart:01/1987End:12/1994
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Amherst
Reunion Class
- 1977
Graduation Year
- 1977
Major(s)
- Biology
Other Academic
Secondary Schools
- United Nations Int'l School
Higher Ed
- Millersville UniversityField of Study:PsychologyDegree:Master of ScienceYear:1992
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Amherst
Fraternity
- Independent (no fraternity affil)
Post-Graduate
Community/ Professional Activities
- National Association for College Admission CounselingRole:Member
- Northeast Consortium Bridging Access to CollegeRole:Executive Committee
- Mill River Park CollaborativeRole:Board Member
- New England Assn. for College Admission CounselingRole:Governing Council
Publications/ Creative Works
- Book Chapter 'The Application Process' 1993
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October 21, 2020
I’m so sorry to hear about this and I’m sorry I didn’t know about the memorials. Rest In Peace, Michael.
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Anna Mastrolillo
October 19, 2020
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Don Gudaitis
October 19, 2020
“Dear Whittingham family, please accept my sincere condolences on your loss of Michael. He did so much to make this world a better place. I will not forget how profoundly inspirational he was speaking at the ribbon cutting of the American Cancer Society/Whitingham Center. His depth of feeling, intelligence, and ability to touch everyone amazed me. May the support that he and you have provided to so many as a family come back to comfort you now. With deepest sympathies.” Don Gudaitis, former CEO American Cancer Society New England
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Rev. Dr. Hope Johnson
October 16, 2020
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October 16, 2020
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October 16, 2020
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Heather Whittingham Seeley
October 16, 2020
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Cheryl Crawford
October 15, 2020
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Tracey and Renee Chavis
October 15, 2020
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Mark Robinson
October 14, 2020
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Funeral service
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